Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Monday, October 1, 2012

Is he / she a good mate? Find Out on the First Date!

"I can spot a good man within the first 30 minutes of a first date." - Journey 
Women used to laugh at me when I would share this with them... that is until I went out on groups dates and shared my insights of each partner on their dates and explained what my observations had been that resulted in the assessment of whether they were mis-matched or not. I was dubbed the Sherlock Homes of Love because nothing went unnoticed. But what always surprised me was that afterwards, having had the truth put before them, men and women will put up with anything for the sake of "love".  Well, at least their perception or understanding of being in love. Well, since I'm no longer available to do truth-telling... below are insights into some red flags you might want to think about before moving on with your dates. They're from an article I came across which tells the truth quite accurately, with a few of my own additions of course. 

Moochers, Takers, Mama's Boys/Daddy's Girls and More - 6 Relationship Red Flags
     By The Lifescript Editorial Staff -Published September 12, 2008
 
You watch the relationship red flags waving at you, but gosh, he’s just so good-looking. So you dismiss them to see where the relationship will go. The problem with turning a blind eye to those red flags is that eventually they’ll come back to haunt you. You'll end up hurt and resentful, even though you could have protected yourself. The following are six  warning signals of a doomed relationship. Plus: Are you over your ex?